08-14-2010, 12:15 PM | #16 |
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Welp.... I think I did good-
I moved out. And in the midst of all the moving even had an hour long appointment with a Organizational and Career Coach that I hired. I've been running around like a chicken without a head and said 'fark it' even if I'm very busy- I need to do this NOW! After an hour long talk I felt a little better about the world. Tossed my shite down, showered, and had some awesome fish and chips and a few newcastles. Today I'm tired; but I feel better knowing that I'm starting to take care of myself. Mucho Gracias to all you peeps! All the comments and words of encouragement are exactly what I need now, and I know I can count on you guys/girls for that. Much love. |
08-14-2010, 01:46 PM | #17 |
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Been here, done that. I looked at the situation I was in, after being told repeatedly how useless I was and walked into a world of full responsibility (after being told I could NEVER handle being on my own because I was too stupid and naive) and made it. Something I learned that week: no matter what your decision is, believe in it and believe in your reasoning for making it. Have more faith in yourself than the world does!
I did make it. A year and a half later I had the relationship that I had prayed nightly to have with my ex husband. I prayed for the right thing, just had the wrong ingredients!
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08-14-2010, 01:50 PM | #18 |
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Thinking of you mang.
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08-14-2010, 01:50 PM | #19 |
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Fantastic analogy Bigs!!!!
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08-16-2010, 10:59 AM | #20 |
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Hmmm... from one of my all time favorite movies... hmmmmm...
"Tyler Durden: We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need." OR "Tyler Durden: Tell him. Tell him, The liberator who destroyed my property has realigned my perceptions." Chin up, nose down, now get out there and amaze yourself! OK, one last quote, I find myself thinking about often these days... "Tyler Durden: Hitting bottom isn't a weekend retreat. It's not a goddamn seminar. Stop trying to control everything and just let go! LET GO!" |
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08-16-2010, 11:05 AM | #21 |
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After this weekend (saturday night out with friends and yesterday in a buzzed haze) I'm realizing that I need to be careful to NOT just ignore the sorro feelings and allow myself to be sad. Unfortunately I'm staying with a coworker until my new place is ready for me to move in- so letting my guard down in a place I feel safe enough to do is a challenge.
I need to let reality sink in on this...... |
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08-16-2010, 11:12 AM | #23 |
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Noice!!!
Thanks brother...... the good news is that I'm distracted for the moment; so maybe an empty house, alone isn't such a good thing. LOL movin on...................movin on..... |
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I am almost thinking I need a change of scenery.... maybe south west... too cold up north for me...
I will also re-itterate my prior advice.. STAY AWAY FROM MIND ALTERING SUBSTANCES (Alcohol included)... they will NOT help you sort your feelings... Last edited by John Koa Wood; 08-16-2010 at 12:29 PM. |
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